Battle-ax

A 'battle-ax' is a woman, typically older, who is considered domineering, aggressive, and intimidating, often within a familial or social context. This term suggests a strong, assertive personality, sometimes bordering on harshness, particularly in how they interact with others. Historically, a battle-ax was a large, heavy ax used in combat; its figurative use reflects the perceived power and imposing nature of the woman so described. The term carries connotations of bluntness, a lack of subtlety, and a tendency to assert one's will forcefully. The impact this has on the people around her and how she can be viewed is that it may cause a great deal of tension, intimidation, and even resentment. The term is considered somewhat old-fashioned and often carries a humorous, if sometimes critical, undertone.

Battle-ax meaning with examples

• My Aunt Mildred was a true battle-ax; she ran her household with an iron fist and no one dared to challenge her authority. Dinner discussions were always a tense affair, as she'd relentlessly criticize anyone who spoke out of turn, her voice booming through the room. We secretly nicknamed her the 'Dictator of Dinnertime' because she seemed to enjoy asserting her dominance over family members.
• The office's 'battle-ax,' Mrs. Henderson, wasn't easily intimidated. New employees were warned about her direct and often critical approach. Though effective, her aggressive management style meant that some employees dreaded meetings with her, preferring to stay clear of her rather than face the consequences if they were perceived as inept.
• Even in retirement, Grandma Beatrice was a 'battle-ax.' Her sharp tongue and unwavering opinions, and willingness to offer them at a moments notice made visits from the extended family a mixture of love and trepidation. One was never truly sure if they should agree or disagree with her since the response could be quite violent if either option did not meet her approval.
• The movie's portrayal of the mother-in-law was as a classic 'battle-ax.' She frequently mocked her son-in-law's abilities and belittled his accomplishments to make herself feel superior. Her constant critical commentary put a huge strain on the relationship, causing a deep divide between the family members and her.
• Don't be surprised, when you get home tonight, that you have to deal with your mother, who can at times come off as a battle-ax. She really just cares about you, even though she has a way of showing that that can come across as overbearing. That's just her way of letting you know that she loves you.