Demiromantic

Demiromantic describes an individual who experiences romantic attraction only after developing a strong emotional connection, typically a close friendship, with someone. It sits on the aromantic spectrum, implying a reduced or altered experience of romance. Unlike alloromantics (those who experience romantic attraction), demiromantics require a deep bond before feelings develop. The intensity and duration of these connections vary, as does the specific nature of the bond; some may require years of friendship, while others may experience it more quickly.

Demiromantic meaning with examples

• Sarah, a demiromantic, never felt romantic interest towards casual acquaintances. It wasn't until she became best friends with her coworker, Emily, and spent years sharing laughter and vulnerabilities, that she unexpectedly realized she was romantically attracted to Emily. This slow burn perfectly reflected her demiromantic identity.
• Being demiromantic means my romantic feelings are incredibly linked to the strength and depth of the emotional connections I create. I'm perfectly content with platonic relationships until a profound bond grows. Romance blossoms only after years of mutual trust, understanding, and shared experiences.
• During her youth, despite the romantic expectations of her friends, David never felt romantic attraction to anyone. It was only after developing a years long connection that she could identify romantic feeling. This caused him to label themselves as demiromantic, finally clarifying their experiences.
• Many demiromantic individuals report initially misinterpreting their strong platonic connections as romantic feelings, only later understanding the difference. For example, Jack thought he had crushes on his friends, until he learned of demiromantic, a term that reflected his love of them.
• Understanding I'm demiromantic has given me so much perspective! I used to think I was 'broken' because I didn't feel anything romantic towards people I just met. Now I realize the value of forming deep bonds and that is what allows the most fulfilling relationships to appear.