Envying

Envying describes the feeling of discontented or resentful longing aroused by someone else's possessions, qualities, or luck. It encompasses a complex range of emotions, from mild admiration tinged with a desire for the same, to bitter resentment and spite. The core element is a feeling of inferiority or a perceived lack, triggered by observing another's perceived advantage. This can manifest as a destructive force, leading to gossip, backstabbing, or even physical harm, but also a constructive one, acting as motivation for self-improvement and ambition. The intensity of envying varies greatly depending on individual temperament, social context, and the nature of the perceived disparity.

Envying meaning with examples

• Seeing his colleague's promotion, Mark felt envying for a fleeting moment. He admired his colleague's hard work but also felt a pang of dissatisfaction with his own progress. He knew he should focus on his own goals instead of comparing himself.
• She found herself envying the ease with which her friend seemed to navigate life's challenges. Her friend's carefree attitude made her self-conscious about her own anxieties. She wished she could let go more, which was the point of envying.
• The artist secretly found herself envying the success of her rival. Their art had gained the admiration of their art critics, she couldn't help but feel a sense of resentment towards them, and her jealousy was through the roof and was driving her crazy.
• Many children spend time envying the possessions of their more affluent classmates. The newest gadgets and the coolest outfits caused a sense of social divide, creating an early sense of competition and inadequacy within their group.
• Despite her wealth, she sometimes found herself envying the simple joys of those with fewer responsibilities. The freedom from societal expectations and stress. Though she still felt grateful she sometimes wanted it to be simple.