Homoromanticism

Homoromanticism refers to the romantic attraction exclusively or predominantly towards individuals of the same gender. It denotes experiencing feelings of love, intimacy, and desire for a person of the same sex, but not necessarily coupled with sexual attraction, though it can exist alongside it. The focus is on the romantic aspect, encompassing emotional connection, longing, and a desire for a romantic relationship. It exists on a spectrum, with varying degrees of preference and intensity. A homoromantic individual might be sexually attracted to other genders (or none), identifying primarily with a romantic interest in the same sex. This contrasts with homosexuality, which is specifically focused on sexual attraction and the practice of same-sex activity.

Homoromanticism meaning with examples

• Liam, a homoromantic heterosexual, finds himself drawn to men romantically, enjoying romantic gestures and expressing affection, but experiences no sexual attraction to them. He might enjoy a romantic comedy centered around two men, understanding the depth of their emotional connection without personally experiencing the physical side of the relationship. He defines himself as primarily romantically drawn to other men, without the added sexual aspect which gives him space to identify as heterosexual.
• Maya identifies as homoromantic asexual, feeling a strong romantic desire for women. She enjoys dates, holding hands, and the emotional intimacy of a relationship, but experiences no sexual attraction to anyone. She would be comfortable in a committed relationship with a woman based on shared interests, emotional connection, and the shared experiences of a romantic partnership. However, sex is not something she desires or seeks from this relationship and would not partake if in such a committed partnership.
• David, a homoromantic pansexual, experiences both romantic and sexual attraction to people of all genders. He forms deep emotional bonds with men and women, seeking romantic relationships with them, and also experiences sexual attraction to these individuals. The romantic aspect of his identity is just as strong as the physical, but he is driven by both attraction, and is focused on the specific person rather than their gender identity.
• Sarah realizes she feels deep emotional connections, enjoys romantic gestures, and desires a committed romantic relationship with other women, identifying her feelings as homoromantic. Her feelings are not driven by physical desire or sex but are solely focused on her love and appreciation for the same gender, and are her driving forces for finding a potential partner. She finds herself wishing for an individual who can offer a deep, emotional connection.