Cadging

Cadging is the act of obtaining something, usually money, food, or favors, from someone else, often through persistent requests or begging. It implies a degree of reliance on others and can sometimes carry a connotation of opportunistic behavior or a lack of self-reliance. The act of cadging is often seen as somewhat distasteful because it places an imposition on the giver and indicates an unwillingness on the part of the cadger to provide for themself. It often involves a strategic manipulation of the situation to elicit the desired response from the person being asked. Furthermore, the cadger will most likely repeat the act of cadging with the same or different person in the future.

Cadging meaning with examples

• After losing his job, Mark began cadging money from his friends to cover his rent and grocery expenses. He'd call them daily, lamenting his situation and subtly hinting at his needs. Eventually, his friends grew tired of his constant requests, realizing they were becoming his primary source of financial support, not just temporary help during a difficult period. He was unable to secure a job.
• The children, skillful at cadging sweets and snacks, would swarm the neighbors, feigning hunger and delivering irresistible puppy-dog eyes. Their parents often tried to discourage this behavior, recognizing the bad habits it was creating, but the children found great enjoyment in getting free treats. This often resulted in the children developing issues with responsibility later in life.
• During the conference, the journalist was known for cadging free meals and drinks from the event organizers and other attendees. He'd charm them with anecdotes and compliments, then casually mention his need for refreshment. His colleagues found this behavior a bit embarrassing, recognizing that his attitude showed lack of professionalism and respect for those around him, but he was unaffected.
• The artist, lacking sufficient funds to purchase paint, took to cadging materials from his more affluent colleagues. He'd offer small favors in return, but these were largely symbolic, failing to compensate for the value of the supplies. He struggled to be recognized for his art, because others refused to support someone they considered a cadger, and a freeloading charlatan.